A successful marriage is not only dependent on luck. Many people look back on failed relationships, but few seem to have found the love of her life and are happy together forever. Nothing seems to be able to have these pairs. But what is the secret of this happy marriages? How do they do that that they are still in love after many years as on the first day? The art of a happy marriage lies in the balance between closeness and distance. And that has to do not as well as in our romantic notions with will and reason. Hedvig Hricak spoke with conviction. Actually, the marriage is an insoluble conundrum: erotic attraction is based on the unknown, space for imagination and the incentive, to conquer the other.
But many of us believe that a good marriage to utter familiarity must be built up. Only where is place da for erotic tension? Who want to land one day prior to the divorce lawyer, should realize his marriage as a dance, like a passionate tango. Both are a Couple that moves in rhythm, but each has its dance. Only in this way it can permanently Crackle. To marry does not associate his own personality on the registry office but his own life with other people to give, as you would weave together on a carpet. Therefore, it is important to do whatever to maintain friendships, to pursue the hobbies, it also did, before the marriage, and to ensure, to feel always comfortable around and attractive. So it remains alluring, mysterious and interesting for the partner, and the common time not degenerates into a boring cage, but becomes an exciting adventure with the people you most want to tell the what you did without it. Because only, if distance must be overcome again and again, really intense close. Stefan Weber