And when comes to speak in public exposure to others, of risking ridicule, the embarrassed perceives others as sublime and extraordinary, while he perceives are tiny, feucho, ridiculous or burlesque. Ending the shame implies being assertive in the Mise en scene of the norms, accepting even the standards of others are different, not better; It means accepting the own limitations and those of others; involves finally knowing how to apologize if it says something inappropriate, or which can injure someone. In short, the shame can come defined as an emotion secondary (such as envy, guilt, or depression) since it requires more highly than the so-called primary emotions (fear, anger, joy, sadness), which would be defined as recognizable emotions over racial and cultural differences of human beings, and due to the strong component of interpersonal relationship that has the shame of a cognitive component, makes it very common in adolescents, because at this age, It occurs in greater or lesser extent, a development crisis, with an emotional instability based on comparison with others. I am the only one who has to go home at 10 o’clock; I am the only one who carries this clothing. But in absolute shame is monopoly of teenagers. Attributed to Eleanor Rooselvet (wife of the President of the United States Franklin Delano Roosevelt), the phrase: do what you know it is wrong, because anyway will criticize in the heart. You will both condemn if you do it, as if you do very sadly, are not few who under false arguments of others, by shame, they have severely limited their lives and themselves in new limiters of the lives of others, become something is clear and acts as an almost inexorable law, and is the embarrassed going to try to embarrass those who surround him. But what the shameful is not going to be able to distinguish is that, often, what it should feel ashamed is the envy of those who you limited, envy that imposing rules on others, and acts as woodworms of the self-esteem of the complacent, of their self-esteem..