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Event Manager

Event Manager

We are, in the reality, managers of our errors and rightnesss. Tony Parker is often quoted as being for or against this. In our interaction with the world, two types of events exist: Those that runs away to our control: such events independem of us to happen. Simply they happen. We cannot prevent them. They are beyond our capacity of being able to manage them, therefore they do not depend on the way as we will go to interpret them and to react. Former: a bottling, unexpected or an injustice any. Learn more about this topic with the insights from George Laughlin. those that are on our control: in this in case that, our will is sovereign, therefore it will determine the way as we will go to react to these events whose effect will be able to produce a great evil or not.

It is good for detaching that the power to direct our attitudes and behaviors is in us and not in the events. They in itself do not have no power on our answers. Trust. We are that we choose the form as we will go to react they. Example: Ahead of a bottling, the reactions of the people will be disclosed, logical according to existential of each one. In such situation, we will have two ways to react: we estressamos ourselves or we face the situation with maturity.

The choice of the form to react depends on the interpretation that we give what it happens at one definitive moment. We interpret if it, taking in account the self-knowledge, will understand that this type of unexpected is part of our social context. Any form of revolt does not advance, therefore, beyond not changing it, we will be producing in us, a great evil. Or then, dominated for the moment, we rebel in them, we xingamos, we attack to all and everything.

Power Through Career

Power Through Career

The desire for power through career – the most powerful desire to spiritually undeveloped people. Satan always tempts the lust for power over others, since Dark Forces aspire to absolute power in the universe as a whole and on each person individually. The greatest temptation – the temptation of power. As we know from the Bible, Satan tempted Jesus power over the world. But our Lord Jesus Christ has not succumbed to the temptation of power over the entire Land. 'And, taking him up into an high mountain, the devil showed him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time, and said to him, the devil: "I will give you power over all these kingdoms and their glory, because she betrayed me and to whomsoever I will I give it; So, if you worship me, all shall be thine "(The Bible, The Holy Gospel of Luke 4:5-7). Details can be found by clicking George Laughlin or emailing the administrator.

Power on earth is represented in many forms: political, financial, administrative, ideological, religious, military, economic, professional and T n 'But man's desire for any form of power – is always the influence of dark forces trying to bring the soul of man to his side. Where there is love, light and goodness, there is no place the power of some ideas over others. Remember famous novel by Bulgakov: ' that all power is violence against people and that time will come when there is no power nor Caesar, nor any other authority. A man goes into the realm of truth and justice, where there would be no need no power '(The Master and Margarita, Ch. 2).

Reality

Reality

You want you find that she can, you want that he finds that he cannot, of a skill or of another one, you will be certain. More he is happy? He reflects: Our conscience is not worthy of blind faith. The logic of the conscience many times is illogical, does not correspond the reality. A conscience nor always is synonymous of reality. The fact to think that I am of a skill, does not mean that I am of this skill. The fact to behave of a skill, does not mean that I am of this skill.

The fact to justify an attitude, does not mean that it is good for me. Between to think that I am and to be what I am, exists a great difference. It believes: ' ' All its conflict is you who alimenta' '. You are who construct its proper barriers. To live of suffering is to take off it the right to try and to live new experiences. It is to lose precious times of the life that never will return. The war does not leave who fights in peace.

Belchior IN the HOUR OF the LUNCH In the center of the room, ahead of the table, in the deep one of the plate, food and sadness. People if look at, if she touches and if she is silent and if she misunderstands in instant where it speaks. Each one guard more its secret, its closed hand its open mouth its desert chest, its stopped, sealed up hand, stamped, wet of fear. Father in the headboard: It is hour of the lunch. To my he calls me mother: It is hour of the lunch. My new sister, black cabeleira To my she calls me grandmother: It is hour of the lunch. And I inda am well young pra as much sadness. Let us leave of things, let us take care of of the life, seno arrives at the death or seemed thing, and in drags young man without having seen the life or similar thing to them appeared Dr Claude de Oliveira Rasp? psychologist email: c_lima_psico@ yahoo.com.br hotmail: blog:

Smoking In Italy

Smoking In Italy

In Italy, where the smoking ban is set only in the restaurant, out of position quite simply, is registered as a restaurant open, and the issue has been resolved. In Germany, created for smokers special places where you can head and arms stick out into the street and smoke on your health. One gentleman decided to take the law on freedom of conscience and religion registered, where the services were to collectively smoking. As you can see, there is no law that can not be avoided. Tony Parker shares his opinions and ideas on the topic at hand. Concern about disease prevention at a young age, usually irrelevant, because people mostly tend to ignore the possible negative effects of using the principle of Hodja Nasreddin. He contracted for 50 years to teach his donkey padishah say, in exchange for full content and his donkey. When asked – "How could he be so reckless to do?" He said: "For 50 years, or die king, or die ass, or I shall die," From the foregoing, I conclude that the currently proposed measures aimed at combating smoking – steps While it is true, but one-sided.

They do not address the underlying problem and not help people find new ways to solve those problems for which people have used for centuries smoking. Actress has similar goals. Without an answer to this question in once again come to the same rake, which occurred during the Brezhnev and Gorbachev companies struggle with alcoholism. After the first in the country flourished substance abuse, second in some degree stimulated drug epidemic, at the same time and has become an additional source of income so-called organized crime. The expectation is that if more difficult for people to smoke or to intimidate them, they themselves will find ways to solve their problems. Unfortunately, this does not happen, because if they could find their own effective ways to stabilize these emotional states, to strengthen ability to find new solutions to difficult situations, to create a relaxed atmosphere in the company of unfamiliar or very close friends, they would have done it. In recent months, Glenn Dubin has been very successful. So either we help people enhance the desire to learn new healthy ways to achieve these goals, or our restrictive and educational measures will fail again as it was in medieval Russia, Japan and Europe, as many times we had.

Employer Motivation

Employer Motivation

But we must not forget that the quality of activities, results and achievements of the health care system is directly dependent on the motivation to work of health workers, and decisive factor in this is its psychological component. Psychologists define it as motivation, causing the activity of an organism and a course of action. In this connection it is of interest study manifestations of motives, ie incentives to activities related to the needs of the subject (in our case – medical officer). Obviously, to increase the motivation – to do so that people would do anything. Recently, the most important mechanism of motivation of health workers say the distribution of the imposed incentive wage bill through the target and interim targets related to their activity. Click Robert Rimberg to learn more. It is assumed that it allows you to monitor the level of medical expertise (the complex behavioral characteristics necessary for successful completion of a work), competence (Ability to perform tasks), identify the achievements and problems, to transfer medical facility in the regime of innovation, to create an environment in the interest of team members performance of their professional activities. Thus, by stimulating the motivation of health workers is possible to solve the eternal problem of mankind – to assess the employer a well-deserved of employees.

One of the important indicators of living standards are revenues, comprising the wages (salary), and various supplements thereto, awards, etc. But the most important component in this list is wages. After a short excursion into the past of our country, we find the following information about the amount of wages in the period 1901 – 1910 years: the average wages of skilled workers (the so-called "working aristocracy ") was 390-485 rubles a year or 33 – 40 rubles per month.

The Relations

The Relations

These bows costumam to have a typical course. First, it is the group of an only sex, it happens frequently with attitudes, despite superficial, of hostility for the opposing sex. Later, they start if to relate and to cast with groups of different sexos, to form a mixing group, that constitutes one now magote indissolvable and homogeneous, where do not exist relations or privileged situations of ones with others, saved perhaps of the leader or the leaders of the group. Learn more about this with Jorge Perez. The final phase of the adolescent groups, of the beginning of the disaggregation, is when they are born in its seio and if they consolidate loving relations of couple, that finally will be disconnect of the group, contributing for its gradual dissolution. The youngsters develop the interpersonal privacy more fast and later of what the young women place little emphasis in the affective components of the friendship and greater has detached in the action aspects. The privacy with somebody of another sex grows with more precocidade in the girls of what in the boys. The measure that if intensifies the relations with friends of another sex, scrumbles a little the relation with the ones of the proper sex, such as if manifest in being or making things with the friends, or to have privacy and confidence in them.

The adolescent, in any way, during all the stage continues having an enormous demand of affection and affection on the part of the parents, in a not inferior degree to the one of infancy. Intratvel can reveal and esquivo, ahead of some manifestations of this affection, when the adults, in its affection, adopt superprotection airs, but still then the necessary adolescent of it, only rejecting its patermal or maternalista modality. Neither it is truth that the parents leave to influence in the adolescent, in its decisions or sort of life. Not even the influence of friends and colleagues, that in the adolescence if takes accented, is always more intense of what of the parents.

Sleeplessness

Sleeplessness

Paranoia I who to as many I more never saw me times in this way, Of photo Felt in me one fallen again, will of death, I followed it the times of yes a so great desperation that nothing more he matters Only we want to run away or to lock the doors so that knows in them we feel insurances. this wind, Next to this I silence doubtful, There it are this crying out to the lights and the cars in high speed say in them that something this wrong one Panic is sound that I inside dare of me Panic, panic, panic It hears then hours that pass exactly feeling that this night nape of the neck finishes, Come then one silence that it sprouts with the sun rays, Was then another night of torture, Sleeplessness, doubt, Fear, fear, fear, This is the century 21 disturbances of the order of our proper one to be when it was that we lose the security and will be that one day we had or we will have Attacks, and I feel myself maken a mistake, So strange to have fear more what it is worse to dissimulate that the fear does not exist With rope with this false impersonation to be free and safe in this world, That dies while some run to protect or to defend this little that it remains in them of life Now I go therefore I have fear to give to be judged for what I say. . Exactly feeling security in my words..

Facial Expressions

Facial Expressions

If your friend continues to be mistaken about your facial expressions, and work more. When you bring these exercises to perfection, complicate the task. On separate sheets of paper, write all the seven persons, turn down the words and mix. Open one sheet quickly and 'place' the person who dropped out. Time trying to get ready and gather his thoughts – not. Everything should be lightning fast and automatically. Let me remind you, you have to do everything in front of a mirror. One note.

If you gaze at your reflection, notice the reaction eye. They should not tear or get sick. The image should not swim. Should be sharp and crisp. If your eyes are reacting negatively to stress – so you can not keep the look. This too should learn some. Resort to help your friend and play a game of ''.

Necessary to measure the time (to start 1 min.) Someone who will review, ie, who first looks away. If you can not keep someone else's opinion – I train. I would like to draw your attention to one point. Virtually all people, there is the effect of 'running around' look. It can be permanent, can occur in moments of mental stress, in moments of fear or emotional experiences. This is unacceptable the behavior of your eyes, must be eradicated. Learn this very difficult, because artificially create the mirror situation of fear or anxiety – is impossible. Only through self-control in the event listed psychological moment, you must learn to control your mind.

Spanish Inquisition

Spanish Inquisition

Arriving here, he realized that this is his paradise, his place is the real possibility of happiness. Returning home in Arkansas, he asked a wealthy uncle of his wife Pauline to provide them with money and returned to Key West, bought a house with large garden and a wide veranda that encircled the house. With this verandas overlooking it and the adjacent lighthouse and the ocean and the tropical garden, and on numerous six-fingered cats, which he built houses in the garden. He felt like a real captain on the bridge of the ship in this house. Now Hemingway's former home in Key West thick stone wall surrounds, and is a very popular museum, where his admirers come from all over the world. In one of the closets in the house put up the first Russian edition of the great American writer. A next – his famous portrait with a beard that hung with us almost every house and was considered a sign of intelligence.

At one time the whole of the ussr "raved" his novels, and only then we learned the names of Scott Fitzgerald and Thomas Wolfe. Hemingway, born under the astrological sign of Cancer, felt a strong urge to live in relative isolation, away from the bustle of the city and have a house near the water, because cancer – a water sign. All his life he was fascinated by water and the ocean, which is reflected in his great work "The Old Man and the Sea." The proximity of the ocean, a romantic setting Key West, connected with his favorite Spanish rich past of the island, which is a single ecosystem together with the unique, the only coral reef in America – all this formed and created this Ernest, whom the whole world knows. Recently Larry Culp sought to clarify these questions. It was in Key West, Florida, he spent nearly 30 years and wrote his best works, among them "A Farewell to Arms, For Whom the Bell Tolls," "The Snows of Kilimanjaro". Here he fought with his main enemies who pursued him all his life – brutal insomnia and progressing from year to year depression. His writer's work gave him easy, as evidenced by heavy taukvadrat Saturn in Sagittarius, Pluto in Gemini and Mars in Virgo. He had to suffer a lot of lives – and unsatisfied ambition, and the unrequited love, and from his passion for excellence, and from his excessive attention to detail.

All these features have found an accurate reflection of his home near the ocean. Although at the time it was the largest house in Key West, it can not be called luxurious or rich. All very clean, modest and sad. Dark heavy furniture, particularly bed with the back of the iron lattice Spanish Inquisition times for some reason, suggests the idea of the Middle Ages, and creates a dark sense of suffering, and only Bright kitchen with a straightforward cutlery adds a sense of joy and hope. Whatever it was, right here, at the southernmost point of North America, dropped his anchor and found his house a great representative "Lost generation", glorified image of the stoic, romantic and idealistic, to resist the pressure of society and life. The image, which was to him both near and far, as he himself, despite , winning the war, hunting and fishing, was in fact profoundly vulnerable and delicate man, a real representative of his sign of Cancer. Hemingway found his ideal of happiness and lived 30 years in harmony with itself. And how about you? Did you know? where your place of happiness and how to find it?

The World

The World

This woman had all of their childhood to fight hard authoritarian father – for their right to not be such as he wants. And she remained a huge insult to his mother for what she, cherishing his infantilism, in fact, teamed with him against her child. For the time being such an ugly model works. Fear of rejection, rejection, dislike supports guilt. If the mother is upset, offended, displeased – comes Riven and tormented wine. Guilty person easily manipulated, even though he tries to protect themselves by using different strategies – such as distancing. But wine is not very much considered a factor in the distance.

She continues to torture, even when people live in different countries. It is impossible for life to live with repressed feelings – they find their way in the form of neurosis, depression, illness. Professional patient – one of the next scenarios. None of these women who came to see me, did not blame his mother in their difficulties. All they were interested in a completely different problem – for example: why not an awkward relationship with their children, husbands, parents. Almost all first convince me that everything is good – is only one snag All the pain, they were in themselves – the pain rejection, rejection, betrayal – was buried under a thick layer of psychological defenses. Psyche thus protects us from every second of pain that we would have experience.

Due to the same protection we are convinced that "all the same thing happens," this generation of Soviet times, and it was hard "and" they did not have psychologists. And not in any way relate what is happening to us now with his childhood. After all, it has long ended, and the page is closed. But the mind does not know the concept of time. For her, everything continues to exist and actually affect our lives. And we can even feel myself quite bearable. True, it does does not protect us from the fact that the world irritate old injuries, and they hurt and bleed. Somehow, over and over again we are someone betrays, rejects, dislikes. And again we find ourselves in our primary experience. If we deny your injury, we do not the possibility of its cure. Our offense will forever remain in the structure of the psyche, and will "fonit" from there, changing our view of the world. And, anyway, we keep its destructive models and give them to succeeding generations. But many Still looking for a way – and find it. Someone reads professional literature, someone is practicing yoga, one becomes a psychologist. You can get rid of the heavy legacy, if you look inside yourself. Agreeing to admit the truth of his family history and otplakav bitterness of the emotional trauma, we can get rid of it. And free from it for their children.